Thanks everyone for your input. I'm going to set some boundaries with her now that some time has passed. In the beginning I was trying to do every thing "right" and now I realize "right" is not necessarily everything she commands. I have a lot of respect and admiration for her years of sobriety and the wisdom she has to offer, I think we just need to iron out a few things. Hopefully we can. If not, I'll have to move on and find a new sponsor.