Just talk to your wife MM.
Explain your concerns - I'm sure between the both of you, you can work out a safe but enjoyable holiday
I must say that the last few days I've been romanticizing alcohol and not sure really how to put an end to that.
you can romance all you like - as long as you never act on those daydreams.
If you fear there's any danger of you doing so, MM, maybe your recovery plan needs a little tricking out into something more robust?
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