Originally Posted by
PJane 
If I were thin there would be no ultimatum beccybean. So I don't know if it is sobriety I want or to be thinner. I will say personally and nothing to do with hubby, I am concerned about my health. That part is all mine.
I stopped drinking for health reasons nearly two years ago. Not wanting to die from drinking can be a powerful motivator. It feels like you have as good a reason as any to not drink.