Originally Posted by
Iconoclastic 
I’m assuming what you mean by “triggers” is in the context of responding to life where the desire to drink / use or other self
What I meant was in dealing with narcissistic people basically. I used the word "triggers" as I'm new to the lingo of recovery.
In the past I have drank to compete with them on their level, and I have drank to gain the dutch courage just to flip them off.
I have let them walk all over me, then I drank & was confused. None of course works for me. You were right above anyway.
Originally Posted by
soberwolf I think counselling of some sort could possibly help what do you think
Better yet what will YOU do ?
What do you mean?