Yeah, heartburn and snoring, don't miss them. If you're on your guard, you possibly won't relapse although the urge can take you by surprise. It happens to me even now (>3yrs) but I know I can handle it.
I suggest you make a special time with your wife, just like before, but without alcohol. You could go for a walk, work on a jigsaw puzzle, learn a new dance, even gourmet cook a new recipe together. The possibilities are endless.