Well, I have to say that you have taken on a lot at once, and the first month of sobriety is a very difficult time regardless.
The trauma is in the past. He can't hurt you now. I understand the anger and the need to create a safe bubble for yourself, I've done that too.
The dating thing? It's okay. Men are not going to disappear from the planet next month. You have plenty of time for that. Slow down. Take your time. You are safe.
This is early recovery. Time takes time. Everything is not going to be solved this week.
You are right where you are supposed to be right now. You are exactly on the path to healing.
