Originally Posted by
aajajen 
Was trying really hard but met a friend at a bar after work tonight and after managing to not have a drink at the bar last week I thought I could do it.
Truth be told. Most new to sobriety don't hang out in bars. You may wish to re-examine your sober tool belt. If you have bars hanging there I would remove them ? At least for now, since that proved not to work.
MM