Originally Posted by
redatlanta 
I am just amazed at your transformation. Maybe next week he will be different. It is sad to reflect and realize you really screwed up big time, and that you are just a shell of a human being. He had so many chances.
Oh Well.
Oh well is just about how I put it, too. I gave him way too many chances over the years and he knows it. And, yes, I already do have a few men lined up, LOL, but you know? They're all screwed up, too, so just because they are available doesn't mean I'm jumping into relationships with them. My X can't seem to understand that being alone is sometimes better than just being with 'anyone'. My standards will be pretty high this time around and I'm actually happy living alone. I honestly believe that I would like a long term committed relationship one day but I, for now, have no desire to ever settle down and live with a man in the same house ever again. It's just too much work!!!!! Plus, I like my space and my bed and I like watching my stuff on TV, LOL!