Not sure if I should say this, but you know the time for action is NOW, right? You can't put this off. You can't wait until she's 13 or 14, because then it'll be too late. You have to take action, and ensure those seeds get planted NOW, or else you're in for one heck of a roller coaster once she becomes a teenager. I've seen it happen before. Sticker boards or marble jars don't work on 14 year olds.