We changed the date from Friday to May 15th so she has time to earn it back. It was the only compromise that made sense so he did not feel like I was disregarding his feelings on it. I would have just went through with the party, and took her laptop, and cartoons away, but it really is his call since it is his present to her. At least now she will get to go. I hope she can be good until then, because I really want to take her. This is my first year getting to do whatever I want with her for her birthday, and I just want to make it special. Tomorrow for her actual birthday my family, and his are coming over for dinner, presents, and cake, so she gets that.