Originally Posted by
ArtFriend 
Carlotta - how do those people react when you do that? Or don't you know. My fear is if I cut her off, she will experience yet another rejection. She is unstable as it is.
I really don't know and it is really none of my business. I cannot change others. I cannot help someone who is caught up in a vortex of negativity any more than I can stop an alcoholic from drinking.
I would rather spend that kind of energy trying to help out a friend in need who is looking for solutions than wasting my time with someone who is confusing me with a dumpster.
Hopefully, at some point when someone realizes that they clear up any room they walk in they start to take a good look at themselves and see that the problems lie with them.
The only way to deal with that type of game is to simply step off the field and refuse to play.
Amen!!!