I agree with everyone, it definitely takes time for him to adjust to you being sober. As much as this is a new and difficult (but worthwhile) journey for you, it is for him as well. Has he ever been on SR or read any of the posts on here? My husband was the same way in the beginning. I sent him some threads from the spouse's perspective and from some who were discussing how challenging it can be to stay sober in the beginning and it really helped him. I think it helped for him to hear what I was going through from an unbiased third-party and to read what others did to help their spouses. I hope this helps
