Cambie...have him check out AL-ANON ....My wife , who is very understanding BTW , goes there a lot to discuss her concerns and questions about me , because I sure as heck can't explain me very well at all... lol...
Seriously , check that out, and be sure to check out the family section on this site ...
I can honestly say , from the Man's perspective , you are not alone ...Be it man or woman , we all get ornery and tired during the first stages of sobriety..And that's the way it is ..
BTW , congrats on 1 Month and 11 days! That's awesome!