Welcome
Sounds like you could use some support.
In addition to posting in newcomers, there is also a friends and family forum on SR - I suggest checking it out to connect with others who are in your shoes.
Alanon is another resource.
The first couple of weeks that I quit alcohol, I felt like a turtle without it's shell (aka alcohol) in a briar patch. I had to learn to get myself out of the briar patch.
Recognizing when he tries may help him find his way out faster.
Good luck!