Hello Lady ,
Welcome along
remember you don't have to dwell on someone else's issue if it could effect your sobriety, plenty of old hands around here who can deal with that
I think good places to start are the "class of april 2015" thread, just post to join in ,
You can say hello and read through the weekender , a thread where we aspire to get through the difficult weekends and soberists share what they do now they ain't drunk at the weekend .
In the daily support area there is a 24hr club pledge style thread .
I think the gratitude thread is also useful, as an "attitude of gratitude" is a powerful tool against drinking .
There is also loads of useful historic information to read , i read non stop for about a week after joining about different "programs" and peoples successes .
Welcome
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