Originally Posted by
cambie03 
Okay, the uniformity of these comments is telling me I need to be a little selfish and tell my husband I can't go to this party. I've known that all along that this is going to be a bad environment -- I mean, how weird and strange is it to be worried about alcohol and drugs at a one year olds birthday party?? But the biggest issue as everyone addressed here is messing up my own sobriety. I feel a little selfish saying I can't go but yeah, sounds like the temptation just won't be worth it.
When it comes to my sobriety, selfish is okay.
And also when it comes to my sobriety, I make the rules.
These people don't need you to get drunk and high - it sounds like they can do that just fine without you.
You walked down the aisle with your husband, not these people.
I wouldn't consider this matter any further.
Glad you raised the issue in this thread.
That's why we're all here.