I can completely relate to you Cambie. Champagne/good sparkling was my drink of choice. Every night. I absolutely loved it. And yes, it is everywhere and you can't always avoid social events and situations. You can make the choice not to go down that path even it is does create that Toddler AV inside of you. I realized it's just not worth it and am training my brain to look at it as poison and recall all the bad things and not what I perceive as the good (it's not good!! not at all!!!) .. just stay strong and continue to make the right choice.
I tried to get sparkling ciders (non alcoholic) in the past thinking it would be a good substitute but that always just made me crave the real thing and I'd end up going out and buying a bottle of champagne. San Pelligrino is nice. But in general I just avoid anything that reminds me of sparkling altogether. It's just not worth it. I don't need the temptation.
Oh - and I always told myself I wasn't an alcoholic because I drank sparkling or champagne. Hah! Don't get me started.
Good luck and stay strong! Retrain your brain. Put that toddler in a timeout.