IloveRRR....there is a post that may be very informative to y ou, just now...
Go to the "stickies" at the top of the main page. Go to the one titled: "Classic Readings".
Then, scroll down to the one titled: "10 WAYS TO TELL WHEN AN ADDICT OR ALCOHOLIC IS FULL OF CRAP".
You keep asking the question: "What kind of person does that make me (if you left an alcoholoic....because they are sick)?"
I just read...in your first post....that he doesn't "like meetings"----
WELL, what kind of a person does that make him if he refuses to do everything that needs to be done to become sober??
Many of the rules that we earned growing up---were meant for a healthy, balanced relationship. Addiction and abuse are two factors that turn all the normal rules topsy turvey. Out the window. Clinging to some of these "rules", blindly, will destroy you.
dandylion