Well, I missed a few weddings and graduations etc.
Staying sober was that important to me - and I figured lets face it I'd blown off things for years because I was too drunk anyway.
I need to put a little distance between the way I used to do things and they way I wanted to do things now.
but...if you feel you have to go there are some good tips here - not just for Thanksgiving
Crying Out Now: Thanksgiving Survival Guide