When I say your headline: Feeling Betrayed I thought it was from a newcomer Friend and Family member. That's the way it feels when our loved ones break yet another promise and get drunk again or act out badly while under the influence.
This dishonesty almost led me to break 13 days of sobriety
If you are serious about remaining abstinent, nothing will "lead you" to drink. If you are looking for excuses to drink, anything can be an excuse.
Being angry at AA is not going to keep you sober and is not going to accomplish anything. Check out SMART or other programs instead and try to put all the energy you are putting into getting angry into your recovery instead.