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Old 04-20-2015, 08:15 PM
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Choose to be happy? I imagine that's a question people must answer for themselves.

When I was drinking, some things could make me happy but it tended to occur in passing and was usually coincidental. Mostly, I was tethered to a place in which I just existed. (And happiness as a state is the subject of some debate -- peacefulness, some say, is a more achievable place.) Whatever the case may be, alcoholism meant I regularly drenched my brain in a depressant, making ongoing happiness and/or peace beyond my reach, outside of my choices.

What I could choose -- and did -- was freedom from drinking. Consequently, I am both happier and more at peace.
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