There are many options to recovery and I'm glad to hear you're going to pursue counselling. Please check out this link which is filled with suggestions and options for recovery:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...at-we-did.html
And, please, everyone, keep in mind our mandate - The Newcomers Forum is a safe and welcoming place for newcomers. Respect is essential. Debates over Recovery Methods are not allowed on the Newcomer's Forum. Posts that violate this rule will be removed without notice. (Support and experience only please.)