I went room by room and cleaned my house, got rid of junk, sold or donated worthy items, and scrubbed ceiling to floor. Moved furniture, basically remade my nest. I joined the Y and took some classes, used the pool, took the kid to a few family nights, met some cool people. Started taking the kid to the bookstore just about every Sunday, we see a new movie every Friday night. Soon we can go fishing. My mother did our genealogy, we joined Daughters of the American Revolution and the Mayflower Society. Do what moves you, and if nothing is moving you, it's time for you to get moving. Much love to you.