Welcome! I too are very new here. Joined last Friday. My drinking consisted of one bottle of wine, starting at 4pm each day and then two very large vodkas, one at 8pm and the other at 9pm. I measured my vodkas and they were 300 mls each. So I was drinking nearly a bottle of vodka a night. But the problem was I was blacking out after the first vodka and becoming an unpleasant drunk. When I think about it, I haven't remembered going to bed for nearly four years. My husband is a little confused too. he feels I should stop and then just drink smaller amounts. He is now coming round to the fact I don't want two drinks, I want 10! He's on board and I am so grateful for his support and you will find everyone here so helpful and kind
