As a Mother of an addict, I have learned humility. Before JJ's addiction rose its ugly head, I had very little empathy or understanding of people's needs. I also was superior thinking and in my job I had so much pride. I now can be very honest with some of my close coworkers about being powerless and I really have learned not to make JJ's addiction a reflection of ME! That is the biggest gift that SR has given me. I am not ashamed of being a mother of an addict and I have such respect for those who have embraced their recovery. I pray JJ becomes a survivor and I will shout it from the rooftops that my son is sober!