The red flag just went up
I decided to communicate w my significant other about my increasing discontent in this relationship. (I did that post the other day about his drinking, lack of emotion, and low libido). I asked him to go to the doctor. I explained how I have been feeling neglected and he defended himself saying he thought our relations, or lack thereof were normal. I said perhaps the constant drinking on his part is the cause of his low libido. He pondered that for a minute and I could feel the defenses rise, so I said maybe he has low testosterone and the doctor can address it. He spouted out "yeah! That's it!" Now that it is official I am living with an active alcoholic, I will try and put all my man issues on the family and friends page. I will seek out alanon as well. Only an alcoholic would take a kick to his manhood over a possible drinking problem. God forbid the doctor takes away his 10+ beers a night.
Jennifer