Originally Posted by matilda123

Hi, all: I was approached via email by an ex who would like to meet to make amends. When we were together he had several addictions, including alcohol and sex. The relationship was turbulent and verbally abusive (and once, physically), although few outside our relationship knew that because he was (and probably still is) incredibly charming. Apparently, he is in AA and working the steps and wants to meet. I am glad that he is getting support, but I admit that I don't want to see him as even the thought of him takes me back to a bad place. Is it wrong of me not to wish to see him? And should I respond to this email at all?