Hi Tired,
I am currently taking Wellbutrin and Lexapro. It really is about finding the right one for you. I had terrible side effects with venaflexine (horrific night mares, night sweats), but it might work for some people. My GP prescribed that to me and I don't think she really knew what she was doing. Pay the extra money for a well respected psychiatrist. You will save lots of time and $$ if you see a specialist. And hopefully will limit too many side effects due to trying different meds. Some can make you feel dopey or flat emotionally but again, all about finding the right one for you. Hope this helps!