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but actually from what I am reading it seems that their brand of alcoholism is safer.
There is no such thing as "safe" alcoholism. Comparing how much you drink (or how you go about it) to others really isn't relevant either, you need to determine if your drinking is causing you problems or not.
The other thing worth noting is that more often than not, things really come crashing down in a hurry for many alcoholics. There is no question that things will get bad if you keep drinking, the only question is how soon and how bad. Judging by your last WD experience you may already be there.