Hi, Itstheone.
I think it pretty much varies from person to person.
I was a closet wino, so no one knew I had a problem. Thus I don't feel compelled to tell a long story to people why I decided to stop wining completely.
I am not waiving a flag at all, I think. Just something like that:
- No thanks.
- ? I remember you liked red wine.
- Yes, I used to. But I feel much better without it.
And the last is absolutely true.
End of story.
But, that's me)