Lexie, his son is 17, junior in high school. This was the most time that he had spent with his dad since the divorce several years ago. My xabf has been a very absent dad, with little or no concern for his boys. My xabf told me back in December when he made these plans that the trip would be the way back into his youngest sons life..lots of one on one time to reconnect them both. Unfortunately that's not how it worked out. I have already reached out to his son and suggest alanon. His son knows he's an alcoholic, he grew up with his dad being drunk all the time.