Originally Posted by
Sisterbobby 
We do not talk, no intimacy for nearly a year. He drinks which makes his sleep apnea 10X worse, so I asked him to sleep in the other room. So he makes love to his bottle every night and passes out in the other room. I joined SR this Jan, living a sobriety life for three months with one mishap. My AH is a manipulator, even a narcissist. (yikes, thats hard to say)
Time to choose for yourself sweetheart
You are in control now you are the sober person with the clear head so you have the power in your hands mate. Use this to your fullest potential. Hugs from the heart of Australia and all my blessings to you