You probably feel like he's been at the Spa while you've been holding down the front lines. Don't blame you. When he gets out is when the rubber meets the road and the hard work begins. I second others and think a sober living facility may be best for the next 6-12 mos... I know that leaves you on the front lines again/still, but am afraid if he comes straight home you will be severely disappointed and much resentment will take place which hinders you both in the recovery process.