I also realised that his M.O is verbal abuse.
Either the verbal abuse I received when he sent 150 text messages calling me a b and a c and telling me to die.
Or
What I am receiving now, complete silence, which is also verbal abuse. Refusing to talk.
And to think only a few weeks ago he was calling me his "soulmate"
His actions and words go from one extreme to the other. He either is telling me he loves me, or he goes cold. Or sending abusive texts or giving me the silent treatment
I've got to let him go. I wish I could instantly emotionally detach. I have hung on, thinking he might contact me, knowing that if I go down the path of detaching, and he starts contacting me, it will be too late and I won't be able to reconcile.