Originally Posted by
Refiner 
Have you ever asked yourself why you desire to have a relationship with such a "project"? Do you think you can "fix" him if he's so broken in your eyes? He's even detailing out to you what a "project" he is. Please believe him.
I don't know. It just seems that the interesting guys, the ones who are not vanilla, seem to have these issues. It seems to just come along with it in my recent experience.
Believe me I'd like to meet someone normal.
He is 44. I want a guy that age , but they seem to come with a lot of baggage, judging by teh last 2 guys before him I dated. All either divorced or scarred from relationships.