While I understand the sentiment... I think folks should try and remember that people who are drinking.... Alcoholics who are drinking - do not tend to make rational decisions.
I care about others and was ashamed of my actions drinking and driving... But it still didn't stop me drinking and driving. Because I was DRINKING. When drinking, my own actual values didn't apply. I no longer was the person I am....
That's not an excuse, but it is true.
Berating someone and suggesting they're uncaring or thoughtless when they've gotten a DUI doesn't seem helpful.
It's doubtful that they began - sober - by thinking 'tonight I'm going to get drunk, drive and endanger the world'