This thread already feels like such good support. I'm heading to the gym in a minute then will be shopping. I was originally the only one of us off work today hence why I was saddled with the shopping. Another housemate is now off so she is sorting the alcohol and I'll just sort the food. The only way to get out of it is to try to sneak to my room once the bbq has started and hope no one bothers to come and get me. I have things to do that can keep me occupied if need be. Right, off to the gym....Eurghh!