Originally Posted by
Ruby2 
Hang in there canguy. Does your "live in guest" know that you are quitting drinking?
Hi Ruby.....thanks Weasel. I'll be keeping in touch here.
Not drinking? I've mentioned it casually. The response was along the lines of "can't understand why anyone would do that"......
Last time she was here I really was in the depths of it.....later she sent me a couple of pictures actually pointing out the physical changes in me. I was shocked....it was a wake up. One of a number of things that brought me back here. So she will understand that at least.
Meeting twice a year you do see changes in the other person....their clothes are different, all kinds of things. It's like meeting a slightly different version of the person you know each time. The culture's are very different too...