Originally Posted by Sisterbobby

I got off work early tonight. My AH was outside drinking and talking on the phone. He didn't hear me walk in. He was talking to his friend about me and my attitude. I probably shouldn't have eavesdropped, but he was talking about what I have and what we have together and getting half of my inheritance and finding someone that will share his dreams...but on the other hand, everything will be okay only if i get better. ( I sobered up, he is a heavy nightly drinker) I made myself known after he hung up and I told him that I have been listening for the last few minutes. The first thing he Asked, " what did you hear?" I said, " everything you said in the last few minutes." He said again, " like what?" I told him that I didn't want to talk about it while he was drunk. ****, I do not want to have a confrontation with him at this time, he is a big manipulator. I wanted to get more sober time under my belt. How do I handle this? I love him but I can not live with him if he does not stop drinking.