i had a horrible time with online dating. while i got plaenty of dates they didnt last very long and now seem to me like i was trying to force somethign to happen when i wasnt ready for it. i did stay with one girl for a year off a website but many failures. i finally had to give it to god. I did write down all the things i was looking for in a person and stuck it in my wallet. prayed on it some and about 3 months later i met a nice girl.