Originally Posted by
Frixion 
Thanks everyone, just getting it out and reading your comments are really helping
I am so impressed with the wealth of wisdom which has come your way on this website and have little more to add other than the very best wishes at this holiday season. Drinking will make it worse, perhaps impossible. Do nothing rash. If you wish, express your love for him but maintain your values, your dignity, by letting them know that, whatever happens, you intend to become a doctor one day and marry a man you love, whether it will be A or some other man. You will care for the sick, rich or poor, whatever their "social position."
W.