Why did you suggesting posting in F & F anyways was wondering??
Originally Posted by
sleepie 
It's victim blaming. My parents do the same thing which is why I went no contact with them many many years ago. The perpetrator blames the victim- then they are the victim of their bad child, what did they ever do to deserve this? then if you grow up to have a flaw, it's all on you. They had nothin' to do with it. I was told by my father to stop being a victim. Fine, how about I beat the s*** out of you black and blue a few times and we'll see about that?
Hey sleepy thanks for that. Victim blaming, you hit the nail on the head. It's sickening. My mother is the worst. I don't know how to deal with this man I will never get over it. I don't know why I'm even trying now