I eventually got answers which confirmed by suspicions. She had an affair in rehab with another patient 13 years her junior and over a foot taller and certainly not an adonis ! I am so stupid to put my faith in her. Aaaaarrrrrggghhhh !!!! God help me ! This man will be single for a loooooooonnnngg time. They had sex in week 2 !!! The low life even shook my hand. I've done nothing to deserve this. My only crime is that I loved her and cared for her. So hurt and betrayed. The rehab place knows. So while I was going through turmoil they were laughing behind my back. I know these things happen but she had a loving family home. Oh and she relapsed with a small bottle of vodka. Good riddance. I'm scared for her boy though. Poor kid. Time to plan my exit.