Originally Posted by
Anna 
I would move to where your support network is. You have yourself and your little son to take care of. He's going to be missing Mom, so having your family around could be helpful to you and him. Allow your girlfriend to move to where you are when she leaves rehab. I wish you well.
This, totally.
My son was 2 1/2 when I spit with his mom. Just taking care of him and working was more than a hand full. Luckily I didn't have too much financial stress. So Anna is bang on, you will need help.