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Old 03-25-2015, 03:44 PM
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eternalLiberty
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Originally Posted by dwtbd View Post
My understanding of the OP and the issue involved is an adult male that wishes to remain celibate outside of marriage , and considers masturbation as a break of celibacy. It was stated, i believe, that this is not a 'porn' addiction or anythng similar. I think it was stated that the OP wishes to use the AVR technique to quell the urge to experience orgasm.
If I misunderstand , then I apologize to the OP.
dwtbd,

No problem dwtbd , i can see in your answer that you are not understanding the matter. You said "OP wishes to use the AVR technique to quell the urge to experience orgasm". I did not say that i wish to "quell the urge" that is not possible, even with avrt. Urges are feelings only, and we cannot avoid them because they are generated involuntarily like some thoughts and images that come to our mind. For example, we cannot avoid dreaming, it the nature of our midbrain to produce "movies" and "scenes" and tell visual stories trought our dreams. But the dreams do canno make us ACT, same with urges. The midbrain only has the ability to transmit images and thought to convince us to get what it wants, but it cannot act on its own. But having an orgasm is another matter, having an orgasm while you are conscious requires you to have some kinds of voluntary action on your "parts" to reach it, not the same as having wet dreams.

As wiki states:

Orgasm is the sudden discharge of accumulated sexual tension during the sexual response cycle ...
Human orgasms usually result from physical sexual stimulation of the penis in males

Orgasm - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

The "stimulation" is done by "Human" not "animal" beast within, therefore orgasm is voluntary, as voluntary in drinking alchool or using drugs...
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