Hi, guys. Rosebud, I'm sorry. A lot of times in life it seems like when it rains, it pours, but if I look at my overall life a much larger percentage of it is good and peaceful. The bad times stand out because they really aren't the norm, if we are honest with ourselves. For most of my life, I took abusive phone calls and face-to-face rants from my personality disordered parents. When I really started taking care of myself and focused on sobriety, it started to become really apparent to me that accepting abuse was self abuse and that was as bad as the abuse others inflicted on me. You do not have to listen to any of your daughter's rants. Your renters will find another home. Put them and your daughter and your grandchildren and your husband in your HP's hands. He loves them every bit as much as He loves any of us and He takes full responsibility for them and their lives. He only wants you to share responsibility with Him for your life!