Thank you Zoso77. From my understanding he is no longer seeing the woman from sober living. She is over an hour away now ..supposedly it was just a fling, whatever that means...but I know better than to believe that anyway. but that is not to say that he isn't seeing someone else as it appears he is impulsive with his decisions..... I feel terrible for his mom as he is now putting her through what he has put me through for years. I know it's hard for her to kick him out so she is trying to help him find his own place but he is putting no effort on his end because I'm sure he would prefer to live there and pay close to nothing so that he has enough to buy drugs. I've told her about this site because it has helped me out tremendously. Hopefully it will do the same for her.