I can see how your X made that comment. My husband and I have been divorced for over a year, and I still remember going to where he had stayed and saying "Can I have a kiss and hug good-bye for old-times sake?". I don't even understand why I said that. I was the one filing for divorce.
Was I wishing that it would lead to having sex, I don't know.
It's like the divorce made me feel "free" from captivity, so I felt at ease.
I know that didn't make sense, but I was just trying to relate to your post
