Sorry to hear that Napster. Don't rush into anything though. I think you may find it takes a bit longer if your kids are under 16. Think you have to be separated 12 months before the court will sign the papers.
I do understand as felt much the same when I left Mr Ral. Just getting sober made me realise I wanted something different because I'd changed so much as a person. But I was just short of 2 years sober and so many things happened in that time. not that I'm comparing but you are reasonably early on in sobriety and you don't need to rush into anything. Hope you don't think I'm preaching