Hi Cohiba, I've been reading your posts. Many, many years ago I was a similar boat. My group of friends (and myself) were up to all kinds of no good. They were all primarily suppliers, which of course made consumption unlimited and free. Eventually it had to come to an end. I was the first to drop out, and the only way I succeeded was to eliminate every one of them in my circle for about a year and half. Doesn't sound like it has to be that way in your situation, but I really have to hand it to you for knowing that its time for a change. I hope you can follow through with it as I'm sure its difficult.